Do you know the big 4 signs that YOU’RE ABOUT TO GET PUNCHED IN THE FACE? (+ a bonus know-you’re-going-to-get-punched sign)

PINs (pre-incident indicators), PACs (pre-attack cues), pre-assault indicators, call them what you will, they’re body language signals that someone is about to throw a punch at you.   While there are many pre-incident indicators, there are 4 big ones according to Southnarc.   Touching his face Ask a psychologist for more info about indicators of… Continue reading Do you know the big 4 signs that YOU’RE ABOUT TO GET PUNCHED IN THE FACE? (+ a bonus know-you’re-going-to-get-punched sign)

There is no safety

There is no such thing as safety. It is an illusion. You may be safe at any given time, or you may not. But safety, as a concept, doesn't exist. A video everyone should watch to remind them there's no difference between you and the people who get stabbed in these videos. What actions are… Continue reading There is no safety

Can you save your own life? First aid edition

Protests are on the rise where I live. It seems to be getting worse (and no, I don't think it's just increased media coverage). Grazes, cut and scrapes don't worry me too much, but gunshot and stab wounds do.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=po2iLU4Ur9w   It doesn't matter how long the ambulance takes - if you get injured,… Continue reading Can you save your own life? First aid edition

“She was asking for it” – where did it come from?

There's something you'll notice if you look for it - people mix up causation and correlation all the frickin time.   A look at stereotypes What's the profile of a girl who dresses excessively sexily (i.e. someone who crosses the sexy – slutty line)? It's most likely to be a girl desperate for attention and… Continue reading “She was asking for it” – where did it come from?

The 3 roots of anger (this REALLY explains SJWs)

There are 3 reasons why someone gets angry, and knowing them can help you understand yourself, and the people around you, a bit better. And in a bad situation, just might save your hide.   From Les Carter’s The Anger Workbook (via Marc MacYoung), the 3 root causes of anger are:   - Preserving essential… Continue reading The 3 roots of anger (this REALLY explains SJWs)

The way you dress means you’re “asking for it”

What's the number 1 thing Bad Guys want from a victim? Safety.   Yup, safety. While some victims will be more "rewarding" than others, a Bad Guy can get some of what he wants from just about any victim. A mugger can still get the spare change from a beggar's pocket. A serial rapist can… Continue reading The way you dress means you’re “asking for it”

A barrier to women’s self defence – avoiding specifics

If you want feel-good, go somewhere else. If you want stuff that actually helps, read on.   Ask any woman and she'll say that she will defend themselves if necessary. Ask any woman about defending her kids and she’ll sound angry and determined, momma bear style, when saying “Bet your ass I will!” But there… Continue reading A barrier to women’s self defence – avoiding specifics