“She was asking for it” – where did it come from?

There's something you'll notice if you look for it - people mix up causation and correlation all the frickin time.   A look at stereotypes What's the profile of a girl who dresses excessively sexily (i.e. someone who crosses the sexy – slutty line)? It's most likely to be a girl desperate for attention and… Continue reading “She was asking for it” – where did it come from?

The way you dress means you’re “asking for it”

What's the number 1 thing Bad Guys want from a victim? Safety.   Yup, safety. While some victims will be more "rewarding" than others, a Bad Guy can get some of what he wants from just about any victim. A mugger can still get the spare change from a beggar's pocket. A serial rapist can… Continue reading The way you dress means you’re “asking for it”

2 simple tricks to improve child safety (Child in trouble tactics – parenting and children part 3)

If the thought of your child running into an abductor or molester scares the shit out of you, then please read this article, because there's this simple trick to improve the safety of a child who's in trouble. Stupid simple, but it has a big effect on your kid's chances of running into molester/Bad Guy/abductor.… Continue reading 2 simple tricks to improve child safety (Child in trouble tactics – parenting and children part 3)

Why don’t more women defend themselves?

Compassion plays a huge role in self defense. And it's the missing ingredient for a lot of women. If you don't love yourself, you won't defend yourself. Bad Guys will search out victims with low self-esteem for this very reason - these people make great victims because they have no compassion for themselves.   Paraphrasing… Continue reading Why don’t more women defend themselves?

Tactics for college girls – Anti date rape drug tips

This is one of those things every chick going to college should know about. Actually high school girls too (what high school girl doesn't go to parties?). And women after college too.   Every girl from puberty needs to read this and watch the video below.   Here are a list of facts: Roofies exist.… Continue reading Tactics for college girls – Anti date rape drug tips

A curriculum for women’s self defense

If I had 3 minutes to tell a women as much useful safety stuff as possible, what would it be? This article is the result of that thought.   This is a curriculum for women starting their self defense journey. It’s an overview, but I might write more in-depth articles after this. I started off… Continue reading A curriculum for women’s self defense

The best article on avoiding rape?

If you are female, then you need to read Marc MacYoung's article on Rape Avoidance. This is not a complete how-to guide, but it is the single best article in existence when it comes to avoiding rape.   You may like what he has to say, you may not. But feelings don't keep you safe… Continue reading The best article on avoiding rape?